My boyfriend of three months, "Josh," and I are having a disagreement.
I was married to my ex-husband for seven years and had two beautiful sons with him.
I am no longer in love with my ex and we do not spend any time alone together.
However, after our divorce six years ago,
we agreed it would be best to remain on good terms for the sake of our boys.
We spend holidays, birthdays and special events jointly with our sons.
Josh has a very difficult time with this.
He thinks that once you're divorced, it's over.
You don't sit together at functions.
Josh doesn't even want him to come into the house to pick up the boys.
I care deeply for Josh and don't want to lose him over this,
but I'm at my wit's end.
I want my children to know that even though their parents are no longer married,
we can be civil and get along.
Can you help me with this?
-- "STUCK" IN NEW YORK